sexuality is always permeated by myths and "duties" that can make a pleasant situation for an examination. Our culture, the competition continues with the next and the media pressure on the sex may result in the perception in humans, which is no longer an intimate encounter a moment of pleasure but a demonstration of what it is, to what you are good. We are beginning to appear in the mind of the individual fears and concerns about the possibility of not being up, not to last long enough and not being able to please his partner. The "pleasure" will soon replace the word "duty", the 'intimacy' is replaced with the "performance" diminishing and permeating the pleasant moments of fear. The behaviors that should be natural and spontaneous become inadequate and unnatural. The performance anxiety leads the subject to consider themselves inferior and then to implement behaviors exaggerated in order to erase the idea of \u200b\u200bfailure. The continuing desire to achieve higher sexual standard, sometimes impossible, to bring the male sexuality live with anxiety, fear of failure and how to assert himself and self-esteem. Sexuality is a very important area of \u200b\u200bour life that may affect the stress and worries of everyday life. The negative thought produced anxiety
does nothing but increase the possibility that problems such as premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction can accadere.La defaillance can confirm that the individual's sexuality is an examination and that, having failed in his "duty" he is not a man, is a failure. Occasional loss of erection can be dell'istaurarsi the cause of the vicious cycle that does nothing but increase the concerns about sex: there is the fear of not being able to have an erection or ejaculating too soon, and if it is happen once you have the fear of doing worse ... and the anxiety that encourages even more increases this side effect (the self-fulfilling prophecy is negative). The tensions that are created under the sheets can also alter the communication between partners, especially the man begins to depend on its identity (a male) from its performance. The person who suffers from performance anxiety forget that a small loss of erection is a natural event and that is not, therefore, a catastrophic event. Shame to seek psychological help, causes many people to resort to pills that promote erection in order to break the vicious circle, often creating a psychological dependency on these drugs. The ability to recognize the thoughts and mistaken beliefs and understanding that sexuality is also made of small "errors" can help the man to understand that sex is not a race with obstacles but it is a moment of intimacy that is facilitated by personal serenity and a good confidence in the other person. The "failure" must be grasped as a moment of reflection and growth. The performance anxiety can be the springboard to a better understanding of oneself and one's own way of relating with others and with themselves.
does nothing but increase the possibility that problems such as premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction can accadere.La defaillance can confirm that the individual's sexuality is an examination and that, having failed in his "duty" he is not a man, is a failure. Occasional loss of erection can be dell'istaurarsi the cause of the vicious cycle that does nothing but increase the concerns about sex: there is the fear of not being able to have an erection or ejaculating too soon, and if it is happen once you have the fear of doing worse ... and the anxiety that encourages even more increases this side effect (the self-fulfilling prophecy is negative). The tensions that are created under the sheets can also alter the communication between partners, especially the man begins to depend on its identity (a male) from its performance. The person who suffers from performance anxiety forget that a small loss of erection is a natural event and that is not, therefore, a catastrophic event. Shame to seek psychological help, causes many people to resort to pills that promote erection in order to break the vicious circle, often creating a psychological dependency on these drugs. The ability to recognize the thoughts and mistaken beliefs and understanding that sexuality is also made of small "errors" can help the man to understand that sex is not a race with obstacles but it is a moment of intimacy that is facilitated by personal serenity and a good confidence in the other person. The "failure" must be grasped as a moment of reflection and growth. The performance anxiety can be the springboard to a better understanding of oneself and one's own way of relating with others and with themselves.
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